or just be yourself and be friends with people who like you for who u r? but what if you have always been wrongIn this world how do you know what's right or wrong?
There is no such thing as a universal right or wrong.
Right and wrong are only two points of view. Depending on what your view is, the decision can be either right or wrong.
To fit in is to conform to society's demands of what is ';good';. Others feel comfortable conforming to this, others are born to fit in while others just prefer being a little bit weird. It all depends on what YOU want.
There's no such thing as always being wrong. Even a broken clock is right twice a day. ^^In this world how do you know what's right or wrong?
Simple, we don't. ';Right'; and ';Wrong'; are COMPLETELY subjective terms. The hierarchy of society likes to believe they create what is right, but that is grossly untrue.
Keep it simple; turn you will over to God and let him lead you.
if you try to do the next right thing and you have a good heart and a positive attitude; then let your conscience be your guide and you will be ok.
if you are ';wrong'; and everyone else around you is ';right'; and there is nothing else to judge what is right and wrong, then you are wrong.
what i'm trying to say is i don't believe that right and wrong really exist . of course there are certain things that we naturally feel are better then others but even they can change over time and what was right once can be wrong in the future and what is right to some can be wrong to others.
Whichever option doesn't sit well with you might be the wrong one. It doesn't necessarily means it's a wrong option in general,but for you,it may be the wrong option. Listen to people's suggestions,but don't let them solely determine what's wrong for you and what's right for you. Like the second commentor said,wrong and right are subjective terms.
If you enjoy it or it's fun it is wrong!
I think there are two answers to the ';right and wrong'; question. It is right to do something if it a) does not hurt anyone else and b) brings you closer to happiness. I believe happiness is the goal of life. If you inhibit anyone else's happiness you are in just as much violation of that goal as if you inhibited your own. The other perspective of ';right and wrong'; is what is right to allow someone else to do. It is right to allow someone else to do something as long as it does not hurt another. In other words, to take away any person's freedom for any reason other than the fact that they are hurting others is wrong. Furthermore, it is not wrong to allow someone else to hurt themselves if it is in the pursuit of happiness, even if you believe it is not the correct path. The fact is that happiness can not be found through being taught where it is, but only through experiencing it. So to take away another's freedom to cause them to make a correct decision is still wrong because it still effectively inhibits their eventual attainment of happiness. As to whether or not it is ';right'; to change oneself, that depends on whether or not you believe this will bring you happiness. You shouldn't do so for the sake of others. Yet perhaps in changing one's perspective, and through this, one's actions, one might become closer to happiness, whether it is in a successful step towards this goal or in a failure that makes one realize where the correct path is more likely to be. I don't know what you mean by ';what if you have always been wrong,'; but whether you mean your actions, your perspectives on an issue, or your overall outlook, the effect is the same. You must make all of your decisions on how to act based on logic. If this logic at any time appears to be flawed, you should revise your position based on the new information, even if it means that those who appreciate you for this ';flaw'; will no longer do so. (This train of thought is based on my opinion that the saying ';ignorance is bliss'; is untrue. Perhaps if you disagree with me, you should ignore this last statement and proceed on flawed logic for the sake of friendship. It is my belief that you will find this way of life unsatisfactory for your happiness as well as harmful to the happiness of others.)
Good luck ;) I'm sure you will figure things out eventually.
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