What is the role of crictics in your life?

How it impacts your life, is it for good or bad. do you give attention to critics, do you change yourself with critics or you just discard them.What is the role of crictics in your life?
i just disregard them.What is the role of crictics in your life?
Look at the content of the critics. Is it true? sensible? Is it from someone who is a master in the topic/issue? If its ok for me to try and improve myself by using that critics, why not? But if its just trying to pull me down, I don't really bother about it.
I agree with V says. If the criticism is warranted and sensible, it makes sense to look at what you were doing and think about your actions. This does apply even if the criticism was delivered harshly or angrily. I believe that constructive feedback is necessary to amend your wrongs. I learnt this from my current boss, who always gets very impatient with me whenever I do something wrong, and shouts criticism at me, but his words usually make sense.



However, if it is delivered out of mere arrogance or unreasonably, I would disregard it. This is the reason why I wear what I want to wear, believe in what I do believe in, do what I want to do - because the criticism I receive (';You only have two pairs of shoes? Oh my god, are you sure you're female?!';) I don't believe in.



By the way - your picture creeps me out - it looks exactly like a zombie I dreamt about a few days ago. But hey, I'm not criticising you!
it's had mostly a negative effect
Ha Ha you got cricket on your mind dont you mate??

i tend to take too much notice of people who criticise me,,

my hubby says i worry to much about what others will think of me..but that's me,i let people walk all over me and dint say anything yo them..wish i could get the guts to tell them to f**k off....it has made me a very nervose person..i'm sick and tiered of worrying will they likw me? am i good enough? do i give enough love?

oh crap i just worry too much....

stay happy and calm

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Ramadan: How much do you want to do to make this world a better place?

What, as a Muslim, do you do to make this world a better place? However small it may be, what is it?



(If you don't do anything, you should start thinking about changing yourself and thinking about the world. It's your duty as a Muslim.)



This question is for the Muslims in this section. Only.Ramadan: How much do you want to do to make this world a better place?
i pray 5 times a day every now and then and i fast and pray 5x if something has gone wrong in my familyRamadan: How much do you want to do to make this world a better place?
Try and tell about my DEEN.

Is it wise to ignore the incompatibility of your fellow beings?

May it be your siblings,your husband,wife,friends anyone.,with you?



How much should you change yourself for them and how much dreams of yours shall you ignore?



What does Islam say in this regard?Is it wise to ignore the incompatibility of your fellow beings?
It is the matter of the life time and you cannot ignore such matters. Dreaming is good but in limits. You dream and try to make your dream come true by praying to Allah. dreams gives u way to live,they make you strive more,work harder, and achieve your goals. Dreams are important to have yet you can only be successful by praying to Allah to help you make them come true.



you have to compromise and sacrifice in every relation but it doesn't mean you kill your own identification, your dreams and life.



Sister, I have almost repeated your words only which u told me once, and that has changed my life.

God bless you sista.:DIs it wise to ignore the incompatibility of your fellow beings?
You should ignore all your dreams.Its in a hadith qudsi that if you let go of the things you desired and indulged yourself in what Allah wants then Allah will fulfill all your dreams.

You can't change anyone so why try.Just pray to Allah since he's capable of changing peoples' hearts.
I don't see how you can ignore such things



Probably better to make allowances and compromises.
Depends on what is incompatible.
In all seriousness, respect is the key. My Grandma is a devout Muslimah whom you'd probably love. A lovely old lady. I'm an atheist. We get along just fine. I respect her, she respects me. From an Islamic point of view, Qur'an pretty much teaches ''to each his own.'' Gotta love that rule. I honestly believe that by ignoring the differences we just create a deeper gap between us. And that never brought us any good.



How about working on those differences and simply taking them for what they are - differences? :)
Yes, that would be wise.;-)

You should try it sometime ;-)



It would be wise of you to stop questioning if i'm a real Muslim just because i ask a question about Buddha on Ramadan . For the sake of peace and love of mankind i do think that you better stop running around using takfir, calling others as lesser muslims or worse , non-muslims simply because we choose to love and not hate Buddha . ;-)



It would also be wise of to to refrain for making statements such as pitying me for my acceptance of the Other, when i don't hate other people such as Buddhists et al .



It would also be wise if you stop picking on Shia's and considering them as not Muslims , constantly making fun of them by raising non-issues , you Sunni fundies are really such bigots and so intolerant of people different from yourself.You said it yourself , you wish to make Hijab a compulsion in your country , how wise is that ?;-)



Finally my dear sister in Islam , it is wise if you would reconsider your misguided stance of wanting to kill and physically hurt people who thinks differently from you . ;-)

How do you make yourself to change into a better person?

Hi,i've tried changing myself into a better person but seem to fail everytime.I'm really sick and tired of how immature and ignorant i act.I trully want to change myself into a better person but am afraid of losing my true identity.What should i do? and what can i do to change myself?How do you make yourself to change into a better person?
There is actually no need to feel and think yourself in such a negative manner. Be yourself and you'll be fine. The people whom truly loves you will accept you for who you are. That put aside, although being yourselves, you must be careful not to do things that will hurt others. Do not do to others what you do not want others to do to you.



There is actually a key to becoming a better person. Kindness, generosity, love and forgiveness must alway be kept inside your mind. They must constantly be the basis of all your actions and words. You should just follow that and you will be indeed a better person. But do not stop at that. Continue and advocate your community, people around you to spread love, kindness, generosity and forgiveness. Do and handle it yourself if you have to. That way, we all can contribute to the eliminating of hatred in our world today and work towards a better world.



If you are serious about changing the lives of people around you, will you help us start a ';Pay It Forward'; movement in your community? Help three people in any way and get them to repay the favour by helping another three people. Think about it. Imagine the power of this movement. It could change the world. Your actions could change this world we are living in.



God bless you and God bless mankind.How do you make yourself to change into a better person?
By making this conscious decision to be a better person, you are already half way there! You should be proud of yourself for making that first step.



Try volunteering (serving the homeless food, coach a team, working at a retreat center, donate your old clothes, join the big brother/big sister organization, there are a million organizations you can support and become involved with).



Read books about admirable people and learn from their lives.



Do random acts of kindness: cook for those you love, drop of a present or flowers or do something good for someone- but do it anonymously...



Learn about different cultures in the world and appreciate how lucky you really are.



Journal.- just write, even if you feel like you have nothiing to write- it will come to you. Write about your past experiences and try to come up with ways that you think may have been a better way to handle things. Write down the specific qualities that you want to have in the future.



Good Luck- I really love your question.
There are many things that you can do to become a better person. ... first hand what it feels like to transform into a genuinely great person.



Here are 3 keys to help you see yourself as a better person. ... be focusing on all the things that you think you do badly but you need to change the way you think
woah its quite a big task to do. but you can do it if you set your mind to it! so good on you for trying to be a better person. first of all i suggest discovering what is it about you that is rude, what causes you to be rude and ignorant? try to be more caring towards others use manner and be sympathetic. Perhaps if your having a conversation with someone and before you say something put yourself in there shoes, speak to people as you would want to be spoken to. Write down a list of things to improve at? a diary/notebook whatever really. You mentioned your immature, well to be honest everyone has a bit of immaturity in them it doesn't make them a bad person, if you have a serious side and a immature side then your doing just fine. You'll never lose your true identity because you are who you are, but you can improve and make yourself someone who you want to be and that is your identity, hope this helps %26amp; good luck! :)
If changing would make you a person, believe me, you would not loose yourself. Try having a recollection/retreat or therapy. it's also good if you focus your wanting for a special someone. let him/her help you. find someone you really trust and tell him/her everything you have in mind and ask for help.

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Are there any online computer programs where you can upload pictures of yourself and change them?

I've been wanting to see how different make-up looks on me but don't wanna spend all the money. So I was wondering if there was a computer program I could use. It would also be cool if I could change other stuff on it to. Send a link please.Are there any online computer programs where you can upload pictures of yourself and change them?
picnik.com is THE BEST site for photo editing. You can't really do the makeup thing, but there still are alot of options to choose from! (There is a drawing tool-- maybe you could use that as a substitute?) You can choose to pay if you want (for more effects) but you can choose not to, and there still are alot of fun things you could do with your photos! You can also directly upload pictures from your Facebook account (if you have one)

I really recommend picnik! Trust me, it won't let you down :)

Hope this helps!

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What would you like to change about yourself?

i have so list going here... starters I talk toooo much!



how about you ? or are you just perfect ?What would you like to change about yourself?
I should be more stronger, but I am not..What would you like to change about yourself?
i'm definitely not perfect. one thing i dislike about myself sometimes is that i can be somewhat of a push over. you ask me for a favor %26amp; chances are i'll do it. even if it requires me to go out of my way sometimes.
I'm not perfect, but I appreciate myself just the way I am (=
I found it easier to accept myself with all my faults than try and change anything
i'm fine thanx
I'm extremely shy and I'm pretty sure I have social anxiety disorder so that would be a start. I also have a lisp which is probably part of the reason why I'm so shy so I'd like to improve my speech. I could go on and on. I'm a very flawed person. I probably wouldn't change everything though.
i wish i wasn't shy
I would like to be less annoying, not as desperate and think about others more often. Because honestly I can be really selfish and B***ey sometimes.
My crappy attitude ti life Jo.

It sucks hun....
My skin issues...ugh
I'd like to be less tall. I'm 6'4'' tall.
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I wish i had more cash
you need to talk to me more because I listen too much!
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How-to do it yourself change brakes and rotors on a 1991 s10 chevy blazer. 6 cylinder 4.3 liter eng.?

The first guy was right. I used a Haynes manual and brakes was the first thing I ever tried doing on my own without help. The manual was a lifesaver and offers a lot of pictures. Get the one specific to your truck. They even have a brake one.How-to do it yourself change brakes and rotors on a 1991 s10 chevy blazer. 6 cylinder 4.3 liter eng.?
You can't explain that in a forum like this, it is too involved. Your best bet is to buy a Chilton's or Haynes manual for your vehicle at an auto supply store, where they can also sell you the parts and any tools you might need. Better yet, see if you can get the factory service manual for the car.How-to do it yourself change brakes and rotors on a 1991 s10 chevy blazer. 6 cylinder 4.3 liter eng.?
If you have AOL or Yahoo! messenger, you can IM me and I can TRY to explain it to you. It's not hard, just hard to describe.



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