Tuesday, May 31, 2011

If someone changes themselves, can they ever change back to how they were like?

i known this girl for years now. i was very close to her and knew almost every aspect of her. her personality and everything. she was never really outgoing or anything, never really being out there. suddenly we don't talk anymore for a few months and the next thing i know, she changed into a whole new person. she developed a new attitude and everything. she had new habits. it's like she turned into a whole new person. i know people change but i feel like she forced herself to change. we are both in college now but as a teenager, we want attention and to be popular and everything right? changing yourself to get all this, is it considered a bad thing to do? it's like she broke out of her shell but turned bad in a way. when one changes one self, can they ever change back their personality and everything?If someone changes themselves, can they ever change back to how they were like?
Car accidents can turn people to vegetables.If someone changes themselves, can they ever change back to how they were like?
I used to believe that way and I really think that people are pretty adaptive, all told. It's very difficult to make a judgment call about someone else's behavior as to whether the way they changed was for better or for worse. People can make strides to change and people can act differently, but whether they've just adopted a front or really modified who they are is something only they really know within themselves.



Everyone can change, but it's a completely individual decision. Know this, though. We're always changing. All of us change, but usually it's so slow that we hardly know we have until we look back at the way we used to be.
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