Okay so this year i WANT to change for the better such as being nicer and funnier and more friendly & outgoing

but idk waht to do to change my self....how can i be more frienldly and more outgoing as well as funnier and nicer?





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(( please i dont want ppl 2 answer saying...';dont change yourself'; because im changing myself for the better...thanks))Okay so this year i WANT to change for the better such as being nicer and funnier and more friendly %26amp; outgoing
its good that u want to change for the better. but its hard to change ur self. heres a saying i made up....





do not what you are doing, do what you are not doing.Okay so this year i WANT to change for the better such as being nicer and funnier and more friendly %26amp; outgoing
Just treat others like you would like to be treated. Once you see their reactions (happy, nice, thankful,...) you will be happy with yourself.
read Dale Carnegie's ';how to win friends and influence people';.

It's an old book, but has good basic advice and exercises you can do to practice. Above all, it emphasizes sincerity.



There are even seminars based on this book. My boss forced me to take this course when i was in my 20's (well they paid for it too - and it is pricey). I was shy and not a good public speaker and it really helped.
What I do is read alot of positive motivational books and make every moment count it takes alot of reconditioning your thinking and habits at first until it becomes second nature. Focus on the person you would like to become and keep reading to maintain that desire, as it is easy to fall back to being just another ordinary person, you want to make your personality and life shine. Like nike says ';Just do it!';
Actutally if you feel good about yourself you will stand out in the crowd because you will be happy.



So try not to obsess over looks, etc. and feel happy.



To be more outgoing just start conversations with people.Tell yourself you can do it and that everything will be fine.
i say just be nice to people and make yourself seem more approachable..give out a few smiles here and there..just dont act too fake because thatll be bad and people wont know who you really are..good luck =]