Should I change myself for him?

I like this guy.My friends (who are guys) went up to him and asked if he likes me,he said:I don't date black girls who are loud,I am not being racist its just common sense.I don't see how that is not racist and he has no common sense.My friend Kendra said:He is ugly and you deserve better than him,don't change yourself because what you do makes you yourself and I like you just the way you are.Last week he was all about me asking him out.

-Should I change myself for him or was Kendra right?

-What should I do?Should I change myself for him?
Are you crazy? No. Why should you change yourself for some guy? Do you think there is something wrong with you? You only try to change if you're not happy with who you are. Kendra was absolutely right. If she's right about his looks and I'm right about his personality, or lack thereof, then he's not worth asking this question.



What should you do? You should forget about him. The right guy will appreciate you for who you are, faults and all.



By the way, how were you planning to change being black???Should I change myself for him?
stay true to yourself and who you are. dont change for anyone and dont let anyone change you.?
Never EVER change for a guy! Ever. It's a total mistake.



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Listen to Kendra!
changing urself for a guy is dumb... guaranteed that u will find someone who likes u for u. forget about him. not worth it
You should never change yourself for anyone. If he really liked you, he wouldn't WANT you to change. Guys like girls the way they are (well...MOST of them) and obvoiusly he's not worth it. I wouldn't go out with him OR change for him.
Listen to your friend. He sounds like a racist jerk and you deserve better.
what an jerk forget him and find someone else [:
Trust me, I didn't believe it till it happened to me: a guy who really cares will like all of you, not just your good parts, but your bad parts as well. If he isn't willing to take all of you, quite frankly, you should not pursue him. Don't change yourself for anyone but yourself.
kendra was right if he doesn't like u the way u are he doesn't deserve u
IF YOU MAKE CHANGES OF YOURSELF MAKE SURE YOU ARE DOING IT FOR YOU, NOT TO IMPRESS SOME GUY OR OTHERS THAT MAY NOT CARE FOR YOUR PERSONALITY, IF HE IS INTERESTED IN YOU , HE WILL DATE YOU
Never change yourself for a guy. If he Truly likes you then he'll like you for who you are, and not what he likes/ wants...

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How are you not going to be black? If you are a loud and annoying person then yes, maybe you should change that aspect of yourself, but not for him- not all black women are loud.
don't change yourself for anyone there has to be some guy who doesn't just like you but loves you (sounds cheesy..rite)besides this guy seams like a real jerk!!
never change for anyone if i were u i would listen to ur true friend
That's a good friend. I like her. SHE LIKES YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE! Did you listen to yourself as you typed in the question? I heard an alarm in my head as soon as I read the title. I think you know your answer.
NEVER EVER CHANGE YOURSELF FOR A GUY!!!!!

you do what you think is right

and your friend is very much correct he does not deserve you and you do deserve so much better

never change yourself for someone who is just going to dumb you down and reject you.

find someone who values you and who you are, not by just appearence.

find someone who will love you inside out.

that guy is wayyyyyy below you and you dont need someone who makes a comment like that.

good luck :D
listen to your friend.. shes right!

dont change for anyone!!!

the people that mind dont matter..

and the people that matter dont mind.

so juss be yourself. its the best thing you could do.

move on and find someone better that likes you exactally how yu are.

otherwise your not goin to be in a happy relationship
Don't change yourself!

stay the way you are :)

seriously, too many girls do that..and then it can usually be a mistake

trust your friend



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Kendra was TOTALLY right! Do not go changing yourself for a boy, (and a jerky one at that!) especially when he can't respect you and it probably won't last that long. Nobody's perfect, especially people like him. And we weren't made to be. Just enjoy yourself and forget about him.
dont change just because of a guy..im a guy but i dont want my girl to change her personality i want her to be herself. so i think your should just be your self
Kendra was COMPLETELY right. DONT change yourself because of a guy. He's not worth losing who you have built yourself to be. You are the way you are for a reason. Don't let one guy get in the way. You have friends that like you for you. And nobody needs a guy to depend on. Out there, there is a guy waiting to meet you, and he will like you and love you for who you are. Have confidence in yourself and forget him. He seems really racist. That is disrespectful and completely out of line for him to say. Move on and find someone who likes you for you, and don't let anyone make you believe that your not good enough for them because of you race, or because you can be loud at times. Just because he's a wuss and isn't as loud because he's scared doesn't mean you should be like him. Good luck, and i hope i helped.
Sweetheart, you shouldn't EVER change yourself for ANYBODY...if he doesn't like you just the way you are then he is not a guy worth having...just forget about him--he sounds like a total Dbag.
do not change 4 anyone listen 2 your friend she is tellin u wat a true friend should
that was so racist what he said about black girls, he is just so ignorenant. don't waste your time with an irgnorenant person ignorance is evil. look what the kkk does they are ignorenant. life your life with beauty a person that has beauty will like you for you.
if you change you should change bad habbits into something better

but never change for a guy

specially one who doesnt like you for you
don't change for a guy you are being something you are not plus he may not even like you and when you don't like him you will regret it and also he is racist and mean I never date a guy like that if I found out I liked a guy and he said something like that to someone I would get over him hes not worth it your better without him
Don't change for anyone: you want to be loved for who you really are and you don't want to change for somebody. You're great as you are, aren't you? :)