There is actually no need to feel and think yourself in such a negative manner. Be yourself and you'll be fine. The people whom truly loves you will accept you for who you are. That put aside, although being yourselves, you must be careful not to do things that will hurt others. Do not do to others what you do not want others to do to you.
There is actually a key to becoming a better person. Kindness, generosity, love and forgiveness must alway be kept inside your mind. They must constantly be the basis of all your actions and words. You should just follow that and you will be indeed a better person. But do not stop at that. Continue and advocate your community, people around you to spread love, kindness, generosity and forgiveness. Do and handle it yourself if you have to. That way, we all can contribute to the eliminating of hatred in our world today and work towards a better world.
If you are serious about changing the lives of people around you, will you help us start a ';Pay It Forward'; movement in your community? Help three people in any way and get them to repay the favour by helping another three people. Think about it. Imagine the power of this movement. It could change the world. Your actions could change this world we are living in.
God bless you and God bless mankind.How do you make yourself to change into a better person?
By making this conscious decision to be a better person, you are already half way there! You should be proud of yourself for making that first step.
Try volunteering (serving the homeless food, coach a team, working at a retreat center, donate your old clothes, join the big brother/big sister organization, there are a million organizations you can support and become involved with).
Read books about admirable people and learn from their lives.
Do random acts of kindness: cook for those you love, drop of a present or flowers or do something good for someone- but do it anonymously...
Learn about different cultures in the world and appreciate how lucky you really are.
Journal.- just write, even if you feel like you have nothiing to write- it will come to you. Write about your past experiences and try to come up with ways that you think may have been a better way to handle things. Write down the specific qualities that you want to have in the future.
Good Luck- I really love your question.
There are many things that you can do to become a better person. ... first hand what it feels like to transform into a genuinely great person.
Here are 3 keys to help you see yourself as a better person. ... be focusing on all the things that you think you do badly but you need to change the way you think
woah its quite a big task to do. but you can do it if you set your mind to it! so good on you for trying to be a better person. first of all i suggest discovering what is it about you that is rude, what causes you to be rude and ignorant? try to be more caring towards others use manner and be sympathetic. Perhaps if your having a conversation with someone and before you say something put yourself in there shoes, speak to people as you would want to be spoken to. Write down a list of things to improve at? a diary/notebook whatever really. You mentioned your immature, well to be honest everyone has a bit of immaturity in them it doesn't make them a bad person, if you have a serious side and a immature side then your doing just fine. You'll never lose your true identity because you are who you are, but you can improve and make yourself someone who you want to be and that is your identity, hope this helps %26amp; good luck! :)
If changing would make you a person, believe me, you would not loose yourself. Try having a recollection/retreat or therapy. it's also good if you focus your wanting for a special someone. let him/her help you. find someone you really trust and tell him/her everything you have in mind and ask for help.
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