Is it wise to ignore the incompatibility of your fellow beings?

May it be your siblings,your husband,wife,friends anyone.,with you?



How much should you change yourself for them and how much dreams of yours shall you ignore?



What does Islam say in this regard?Is it wise to ignore the incompatibility of your fellow beings?
It is the matter of the life time and you cannot ignore such matters. Dreaming is good but in limits. You dream and try to make your dream come true by praying to Allah. dreams gives u way to live,they make you strive more,work harder, and achieve your goals. Dreams are important to have yet you can only be successful by praying to Allah to help you make them come true.



you have to compromise and sacrifice in every relation but it doesn't mean you kill your own identification, your dreams and life.



Sister, I have almost repeated your words only which u told me once, and that has changed my life.

God bless you sista.:DIs it wise to ignore the incompatibility of your fellow beings?
You should ignore all your dreams.Its in a hadith qudsi that if you let go of the things you desired and indulged yourself in what Allah wants then Allah will fulfill all your dreams.

You can't change anyone so why try.Just pray to Allah since he's capable of changing peoples' hearts.
I don't see how you can ignore such things



Probably better to make allowances and compromises.
Depends on what is incompatible.
In all seriousness, respect is the key. My Grandma is a devout Muslimah whom you'd probably love. A lovely old lady. I'm an atheist. We get along just fine. I respect her, she respects me. From an Islamic point of view, Qur'an pretty much teaches ''to each his own.'' Gotta love that rule. I honestly believe that by ignoring the differences we just create a deeper gap between us. And that never brought us any good.



How about working on those differences and simply taking them for what they are - differences? :)
Yes, that would be wise.;-)

You should try it sometime ;-)



It would be wise of you to stop questioning if i'm a real Muslim just because i ask a question about Buddha on Ramadan . For the sake of peace and love of mankind i do think that you better stop running around using takfir, calling others as lesser muslims or worse , non-muslims simply because we choose to love and not hate Buddha . ;-)



It would also be wise of to to refrain for making statements such as pitying me for my acceptance of the Other, when i don't hate other people such as Buddhists et al .



It would also be wise if you stop picking on Shia's and considering them as not Muslims , constantly making fun of them by raising non-issues , you Sunni fundies are really such bigots and so intolerant of people different from yourself.You said it yourself , you wish to make Hijab a compulsion in your country , how wise is that ?;-)



Finally my dear sister in Islam , it is wise if you would reconsider your misguided stance of wanting to kill and physically hurt people who thinks differently from you . ;-)