Why do girls tell nice guys not to change?

A friend of mine that I really like was complaining about how she can't get a guy, and guys don't think she's pretty, or they just use her, etc. I told her I was there for her if she wanted a nice guy, but I know she doesn't like me and I acknowledged that nice guys typically aren't what girls are looking for. Later I asked her why that is and got the usual answers, they like the challenge, want to change them, etc. So I asked her if that meant that I should be like that and right away she says ';NOOOOO you're nice, don't change yourself.'; I don't get it though. Every girl that tells me I'm nice like it's a good thing would never date me, but then they tell me not to change. Why do they say that? Do they not want me to be happy or something? I'm not good enough for them the way I am, but they tell me not to change. Why? And not to be conceited, but I'm not ugly or anything if you thought that had something to do with it. I'm in college if that helpsWhy do girls tell nice guys not to change?
The answer is in your question. Girls. You're talking to Girls. You need to find a Woman. Besides, you're in college right now, you aren't going to find a Woman until you get done with college and find yourself on the road to success in whatever career you are looking to enter. Women don't go for boys, they go for men...That they don't need to fix.Why do girls tell nice guys not to change?
To deceit them
I am sorry to say but most times when girls say that you should not change they are saying that they wouldn't want to be with you anyway.



But listen to me they are dumheads for liking those type of boys because they are the worst and not every girl likes them because I surely don't. I Like someone who is kind and honest, who likes metal, rock and alternative music, who likes going to car shows, someone who is not afraid of what anyone else thinks, someone who is funny and most of all someone who just BE THEIR SELVES!!



Don't ever let people get you down!!