we go by what we know. we give ppl the benefit of the doubt. this is just an advice section, not life or death.Why are people so helpful when it comes to relationship advice?
If your a rapist who doesnt pay child support, your probably not on yahoo answers.
Most of the people on here are kids....so, they need to learn that being themselves and not a carbon copy of what they see on MTV is a good thing.
I mean, what if you told a rapist who doesnt pay child support to be themselves? If you didnt say that, would they suddenly stop raping people and start being responsible? I doubt it.
People are generally nice. The media just distorts it by showing all the evil in the world.
Usually people care and that is why they take their time to try to offer good advice to people who ask for it.
If the person is a rapist who doesn't pay child support, I certainly have no good advice. As far as I'm concerned, the person belongs in jail for the rape and refusal to pay child support.
People are helpful because we've all struggled with relationships and we all have questions about them that we don't know the answers to.
And we feel for others, we have no way of knowing if they are a rapist or anything else like that, but we want to offer help to people who are going through what we once have gone through.
I think a big part of it is we still feel sympathy for ourselves when we were in whatever position and we kind of feel like we're helping our previous selves when we help other with the same problem we once had.
Maybe because we've all been in those kinds of situations. It's called empathy you should try it =)
well its advice.
People will help you with what they know (or what they think they know). That's why I'd never give someone advice about cars, I don't know a thing about them. Also, people generally want others to be happy. Why not give that shy boy tips for starting a conversation with the girl he likes?
because only nice people that care will waste thier time answering wuestions like yours. i doubt rapists will go to their computer at night and be like ';ooh lets see what questions i answer in yahoo before i rape a kid'; are you retarted or something
People are helpful with relationship advice because it's a major life experience, and the more you have the more you know. Sharing this info is helpful in some ways to others if they can relate and it can help them understand things better and faster. And preferably avoid mistakes.
As for the rapist part...most anti-social disorders have a cause, most often related to some traumatic childhood experience, lack of parental affection, so on and so forth. So asking such a person to manifest itself naturally should not reveal a rapist, but a scared child in need of love, or support and understanding. ';Don't change yourself'; should refer to staying true to your heart, and not doing what everybody else does ( such as starting to smoke, or cheating, being untruthful, etc), or generally not to pick up attitudes that are not yours. Staying true to one's self is essential. There are no evil/mean people. There are just people who were weak, or overpowered by certain events in their lives, and their deviant side is not who they really are, it's just the consequence of circumstances. Normally they should be fully responsible and not fall into weakness and give in to compulsions generated by trauma, and master themselves. But nowadays society breeds weakness, and wants us to need and seek help, and cause us to depend on many things. And having people depend on you spiritually/mentally/emotionally gives you power over them.
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