How do you keep a bf interested in you without having sex?

My bf is more experienced then I am and lately he's been making me feel like I'm too innocent. But if I try to be outgoing, he just makes up a reason to leave. How do you keep a bf interested without sex and without changing yourself too much?How do you keep a bf interested in you without having sex?
You be yourself... And stick to your guns. If you don't want to have sex, don't do it. If he loses interest because you won't have sex with him, you're better off without him... Believe me.



The right guy will stay with you with or without sex.How do you keep a bf interested in you without having sex?
If he's expecting some kind of catch to your relationship..then he's not worth having.

If worst comes to worst, just give him a handjob or something.
If your BF is only interested in sex then you need to leave him, there are plenty of college girls that can give him that. If he cares about you then he will respect your boundaries, and don't let him make you feel like your ';too innocent'; innocence is a virtue, something to be proud of, not a source of shame.
Try talk to a another male in front of him, make him think he's not the only you got.
I think that the answer to this question is to ask yourself another question. Why would you want to be with someone that isn't so butt-crazy in love with you that nothing else matters? You shouldn't have to ';keep him interested'; that should just happen naturally without much added effort.

If this guy can't stay focused on you because you're waiting to have sex (which is sooooo incredibly smart by the way) then he's pretty boring. Maybe it's time to send his boring butt packing! hahaha
Just be as natural as possible. Tell him upfront if you don't want to have sex with him just yet, and if he can't accept that-- get rid of him! Don't let him pressure you into anything you don't feel comfortable with. If you really love him, though, tell him that too, and if he can't bear to wait for you to be ready, he's not worth it. Good luck!
Heyy

It's not fair that he treats you like that.

Personally I really like this girl and I havent really felt any sexual need. Don't know why, jst care more about her as a person, then as her as an object.

If he really liked/loved you he wouldn't be that bothered about sex.

He should learn to wait or just be open minded with you.

It's not your fault!
No sex = goodbye



And don't patronize men for this.



No penetration = No relationship



We just will not walk around being neutered boyfriends...
Hes almost using you in a way.
Good luck, if you will try to change then you will not be happy. If he's not interested anymore then maybe your not meant for each other. There's a lot of fish in the sea.
Get to what he likes. Like if he likes cars, go with him, help him fix his car. You could also fix a romantic date with him. Go to the movies, and go under his arm. Guys love it when they get to save the girls. Try doing something together, read a magazine for ideas. Go away for the weekend, like road trip, with or without friends, but in your case, with your friends. Support him in his activities, like if he sings on stage, show him you care and cheer for him.
You could try doing things you both like to do to have fun. And hanging out with friends/ other people helps too. Maybe watching movies, going to concerts, bowling, or karaoke.



Relationships shouldn't be all about the physical. You should be able to have some type of connection with each other. If he's not interested in getting to know you, or being around you and your friends, then unfortunately, he might be interested in just one thing...%26gt;_%26lt;



Just some ideas, hope it helps!
I'm 22. And I've been dating a 34 year old for the last 4 months. We have not engaged in intercourse. If you feel like your boyfriend is in the least bit anxious about it and treats you disrespectfully at all for your personal choices about sex, then he's not going to be worth it when you do decide you're ready. I'm sorry for being harsh. I just feel for you and feel very strongly about who I let enter my body. xoxx Good luck honey.