How do you become comfortable and confident about yourself?

Say if you're comfortable about yourself of who you are and the kind of person you are, though you still somehow always remain in the friend zone with a woman you like, how do you maintain your confidence?



In other words, how do you keep true to yourself and be yourself without having to change yourself into a jerk or a*sshole to have women like you. How do you keep the positiveness within you?



How do you remain true to yourself when things don't go your way, such as being rejected or remaining just as friends?



How do you continue of being who you are without second guessing yourself?How do you become comfortable and confident about yourself?
you just have to understand yourself and know that you are a good person and be happy with that. women who want jerks want them for the wrong reasons. you are going to find the real women with long term, respectable intentions who will admire your security.



you can never have enough friends, and if you have a good head on your shoulders you will definitely meet someone compatible with you-dont worry!



and dont second guess yourself. be confident. look at all the things you have accomplished, and the situations you have handled well and learned from...go off of those and stay positive :)