How do you change yourself?

I'm trying to make a career change in my life but I'm finding nothing that suits me. I have a real problem being self motivating and I can't stay focused worth a darn. How do I change the way I do things. I want to be proactive but I can't ';just do it'; so help please!How do you change yourself?
Our life is so fast. Living in the same way for long time is useless nowadays... Changing is the only way. When anyone changes anything related with him/her, he/she will feel the pulse of his/her life.



Steps



1.Accept and admit that you need to change. This is a huge step. The fact that you already clicked on this article shows that you want to change, and know somewhere you have a problem.

2.Think of all the things in your life you want better. Make a list of all the things, or the thing, that you want to change.

3.Don't set any limits to your change. If you think maybe, someone will make fun of you for trying to change, or maybe it isn't possible, or that you just can't, realize that it doesn't matter! It's a psychological change, so attitude plays a big part in your ability to succeed. Set small, easy goals that you know you can achieve and work your way up.

4. Write the steps that you need to take to achieve the changes you wrote down. Be reasonable, but don't be afraid to reach high at the same time. Set a day when you'll start taking all these steps.

5.When that day comes to start doing those steps, just do it. Don't even think about it. Abandon everything you don't want and just throw yourself into the new you!How do you change yourself?
Try doing something you like. Money isn't everything, remember that...
It's a waste. I haven't changed in years, despite people telling me how much they hate me. Hell, one person even told me she prays I die a painful death. Not that I value the opinions of people who pray all that much anyways.



The key is to be as abrasive to everyone as possible. They'll start changing soon. At least that's what I've found. Unfortunately, the only friend I have isn't changing much, and the horrifying thing is that she's the exact opposite of me. She gives a **** about everyone.



So how do you change? I wouldn't know. Come spend a day or two with me. You'll probably change.