Personality is far too complicated and interwoven with reinforced experience, habits and other factors that it檚 not possible to deal with any one problem in isolation. Although it is true that some people make remarkable changes over their lifetime, I contend that those changes may occur on the outer edges of the circle (personality) and that in and of itself may result in a completely changed person. However, changing the basic nature of the core personality, in my opinion, is an unrealistic goal that only leads to a greater sense of hopelessness that may add to the futility of the quest to changes one檚 life.
Hopefully we should try and set realistic goals, ones that are credible and attainable. However, changing our core personality is not, in my opinion, a realistic goal. A better one would be to find experiences in our life that we can re-examine and perhaps come to different conclusions about their meanings that ultimately affect the way we see them. This hopefully can lead to insights that shed light on why it is so difficult to trust others, and maybe lay the foundation for taking the risk of finally sharing some of our deepest held fears and secrets with others. Perhaps, this will teach us that there are people who we can trust and maybe chip away at that core perception of the world thus far seen.How do you go about changing yourself?
The fact that you realize that you need to change for the better is the first step
mmm first of all, what would make you think this way?
you have to AGREE that you are what other people think first before you attempt to change anything if you WANT to for the better of yourself and others.
I suggest talking to people who have negative thoughts about you and find out why. Then work on approaches to improving yourself if you see their side and want a change for the bettter of you and others.
If you disagree, and the way you act isn't harming the safety of others, then it's fine to hold on to your own principles.
yeah well its harder for some people
If you're continuously hurting people around you by simply being you, you may want to consider administering changes in your personality or character. If otherwise is true, try to accept yourself for who you really are and realize that there are people who appreciate you inspite of your flaws.
people are who they are, you can say something to make someone happy...but when it comes down to it your feelings wont change, just the words that come out of your mouth will..
yeah change it! anything is possible:D
think bout how you want to be.
just change ur mind set. Changing the way u think and react to everyone around u will help u become more fun it just takes time. and no changing everything would not be a lie, it would be sorta like reforming ur lifestyle
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