How can you change yourself to a better person?

How DO you just CHANGE?How can you change yourself to a better person?
by doing temperate acts, we become temperate, by practicing kindness, we become kind, by practicing compassion, we become compassionate, by doing just things we become just.

You just have to keep in mind at all times what the nice thing is to do and do it. Through practicing it all the time, you will become that person. That is how you change. Hopefully, by doing it often, it becomes part of you and brings you to even greater acts of compassion, kindness, and justice.How can you change yourself to a better person?
make your self easier to get along with, don't alway say what everyone should do just play along
just make changes in life
You can't just change,



The self is not something ready made, but something in continuous formation through choice of action. -John Dewey



change is a slow and deliberate process.
Just think about your funeral. How and what would you like people to say about you? Think about what they would say...do you think they would say more nice things about you or bad things. That way you have a moment to change what things that people dont like about you and keep things that are good. Hope that helps.
volunteer lend a hand and start going to church you'll meet good people that want to change for the good plus having good positive people around doesn't hurt. good luck
Look at yourself honestly and objectively..Do you rationalize your faults or do you underestimate your strengths? If you can ask '; How do you just change?';, then you're already on your way- just by being humble enough to want to know..
Small, slow changes... build one upon another until you become who you want to be. Changes happen long and slow, over a long period of time, not sudden and easily. Change one habit over 90 days of practicing the new habit, which you want to replace it. Then change another over 90 days of practice. It's a long, slow process like I said. It's very rewarding and worth it once you get to where and who you want to be!
Easy, start with how you view other people. If you view everyone as stupid or ignorant or low class then you won't be able to change. If you view everyone as being special, then you will have a bit more time for them. Also, don't judge a person by there clothes or their job. Judge them by the way they treat you and their neighbours.

I have 4 people who aren't welcome on my bus, but I have meet many many people who others never look at who are.

Remember this is a heart thing, so all those things Jesus talked about - forgiveness, loving your neighbour, giving to charity, etc - become important.
You know, I used to be the same way as you. I actually ruined my life stressing out about what I thought was a big deal.I was the most criticizing person to myself. The one thing I realized after many anxiety attacks is that you don't really ever change.Try to concentrate on the really great things about yourself, and maybe the little things that bother other people won't bug you as much.Believe me, you notice the bad things more than anyone else. Try a little less, the biggest battle in life is always against yourself!:)
with love, love yourself